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<v ->On Larry King Now, "Everything is (beeping)"</v>

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author Mark Manson.

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<v ->The title promises hope, and I think a lot,</v>

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you know, everybody today

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is looking for some hope in society.

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People are freaking out a little bit.

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But the argument I end up making

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is that that desperate need for some vision of hope

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that's gonna come and like solve society,

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that's the problem.

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We can very quickly devolve into a dangerous game,

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where we're trying to out victim the other person.

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<v ->See it everyday.</v>

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<v ->And it's a way to get attention, especially online.</v>

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You can't have a functional community based off of that.

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<v ->Plus.</v>

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<v ->A lot of the technology that we've created</v>

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obviously there are benefits to it,

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and there are, they are enjoyable in certain capacities,

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but I think there are social side effects,

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and social consequences.

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<v ->That is all next on Larry King Now.</v>

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Hey, welcome to Larry King Now, I'm Dennis Miller,

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filling in for Larry.

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Today's guest is Mark Manson.

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Now Mark is the author of the New York Times

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best selling book, "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a (beep)"

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which has sold over eight million copies.

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Now you hear that number folks.

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I was in a O'Reilly land for awhile,

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there's a lot of books sold there.

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Eight million is freakazoid, Clancy stuff.

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He's back with a followup to the extremely successful book,

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this one is called, "Everything is (beep)."

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Now I love the coda, A Book About Hope.

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(laughing)

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That's funny, it's currently available online,

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and in stores.

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How are you, my friend?

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<v ->(laughing) It's good to be here.</v>

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<v ->Eight million, God bless ya.</v>

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I think Buzz Aldrin like walked on the moon,

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and then he had to sell Daihatsu's

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and it freaked him out a little.

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(laughing)

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At some point, this kid, or relatively young man,

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I think you're 31 when you write the first one?

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->Did it get into your head at all?</v>

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Everybody wants to sell that many books,

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but that's an amazing number of books.

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<v ->Yeah it messes with you because you basically,</v>

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I had this idea in my head that I was gonna

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be writing a lot of books for many decades.

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And I think we all kind of go into our career

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with this idea that each book's gonna

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be a little bit better than the last one.

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But when you hit eight million on the first shot,

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you feel like there's nowhere to go

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but downhill (laughing) after that.

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And when you're thirty, that freaks you out.

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<v ->Yeah but you can go die on a hill</v>

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and be at seven million.

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->You're still at the sixth base cap.</v>

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Give me the core premise as you would put it.

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I'm familiar with the first book,

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but give me the core premise of the first one

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and then we'll see how you've tweaked it

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in the second one.

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<v ->Sure.</v>

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So the first one is essentially,

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I think of it as like a pessimistic self-help book.

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I think most of the genre of self-help,

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it's all about like you can follow your dreams,

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and you can do anything you want

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and just believe in yourself.

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And it's a lot of very feel good fluffy unicorns

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and rainbows vision of the world.

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As somebody, I spent a number of years

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researching human behavior and psychology,

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and what you realize is that humans are,

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we're pretty awful creatures.

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We're awful to ourselves, we're awful to other people.

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And so I wanted to write a self-help book

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that essentially that was the starting point.

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It's like, let's just try to be less awful to each other.

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<v ->Good first step, right?</v>

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<v ->Let's leave it there.</v>

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Let all the dreams and you can accomplish anything.

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<v ->So you get to, when do you start writing it,</v>

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the mothership, the first book,

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you start writing it in the late 20s or?

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<v ->I started when I was 30.</v>

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<v ->How long did it take you?</v>

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Did it pour out of you?

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Was it a hard process to birth it or easy?

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<v ->It was hard.</v>

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It took about two years.

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There was, the first draft was kind of garbage

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and had to throw that out and start over.

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But I think we got it right the second time around.

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<v ->All right and then how do we tweak it for this one,</v>

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"Everything is (beeping)", A Book About Hope.

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And what would you say subtle tweak is in this?

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More optimism per chance?

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<v ->Oh no.</v>

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<v ->No?</v>

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<v ->This one's a little bit darker.</v>

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<v ->Yeah?</v>

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<v ->Yeah I would say that if subtle art was primarily about</v>

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looking at our own life and our own values,

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and understanding where the ways in which we

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create our own suffering and maybe dilute ourselves

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about what we're doing.

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This is more of an outward look onto society.

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It's, the title promises hope,

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and I think a lot, everybody today's looking

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for some hope in society.

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People are freaking out a little bit.

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But the argument I end up making

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is that that desperate need for some vision

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of hope that's gonna come and solve society,

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that's the problem.

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It's that seeking that's the problem.

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That we need to be more skeptical of our own hopes.

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<v ->I find the prevalencey</v>

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of people brandishing their specific pain,

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or the inequity of their life

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or the disillusionment of their life

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is their calling card now to be an oddly present day thing.

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It used to be people would

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brandish their proudest achievement,

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or can I show you my kid's pictures.

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You're almost with somebody for 30 seconds now

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when they're telling you how life

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has dealt them dirty in a way.

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I don't know when that happened.

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into a dangerous game where we're trying

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to out-victim the other person.

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<v ->See it everyday.</v>

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<v ->And it's a way to get attention, especially online.</v>

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But it doesn't,

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you can't have a functional community based off of that.

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<v ->Off complete dysfunction.</v>

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At some point, somebody's gotta grab the rudder

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and stare this thing.

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->We're gonna talk about social media.</v>

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That's a big part of this.

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The ability to flourish your emotional cards.

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All these things we used to keep in here

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and wonder should I see a shrink about this

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are now out there online within 15 seconds

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of thinking about 'em.

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Big problem.

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After the break, Mark Manson will also talk about hope

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and why the hope might be a bit of a misnomer.

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Should we still have hope or is hope lost?

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The book is "Everything is (beeping)", A Book About Hope.

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You're watching Larry King now,

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and we'll be.

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Welcome back to Larry King Now,

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I'm Dennis Miller filling in for Larry.

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Today my guest is "Everything is (beeping)"

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author Mark Manson.

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First off Mark, I should have asked,

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are you a trained psychologist?

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<v ->No.</v>

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<v ->Have you been in therapy?</v>

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<v ->Oh yeah.</v>

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(laughs)

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Quite a bit.

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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The thing I loved the most about therapy in my life

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is you could take the most aberrant notion that you've had,

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it's something where you think I gotta go see a shrink.

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And I used to love that moment where'd they look up

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and go yeah my 9:30 has that.

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You know I always loved that feeling

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where they've heard everything.

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<v ->Yeah yeah, absolutely.</v>

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<v ->Humans are more dinged than they think.</v>

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We can't talk about it,

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but I guess that's one of the things here.

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People might come to this sort of aa cathartic salt lick

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to say yeah that's the stuff I think,

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and somebody else has thought.

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<v ->Well it's funny starting my career online,</v>

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I get emails from thousands and thousands of people.

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And related to that,

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what I started noticing was that everybody

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has pretty much the same four or five problems going on.

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But everybody thinks that their problem is special.

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->They think they're the only one who feels this way.</v>

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They think they're the only ones who have been harmed

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or damaged in this way.

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<v ->Kids today, well I often think never</v>

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of lives less lived been more chronicled.

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->I mean there are kids out there everyday talking</v>

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about their life.

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And I'm thinking you haven't even lived it yet.

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And they're already experiencing the downside of it.

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<v ->Absolutely.</v>

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<v ->Social media's a dangerous creature I think.</v>

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Your thoughts?

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<v ->I think, I wrote an article about a year ago</v>

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called smart phones are the new cigarettes.

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And I think a lot of the technology that we've created,

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obviously there are benefits to it.

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And there are, they are enjoyable in certain capacities.

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But I think there are social side effects

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and social consequences.

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The same way it's like, you know,

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if one of these guys started smoking in this room,

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it affects us, affects our health.

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I think the same thing goes with social media.

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All it takes is one weirdo posting some crazy stuff,

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and that just gets broadcast to such an extent

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that it starts to dominate our cultural narrative.

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<v ->Plus we live on the precipice man.</v>

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It can go away quickly.

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<v ->Oh yeah.</v>

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<v ->I was watching Face in a Crowd recently</v>

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and Elia Kazan, I read some back story notes on it.

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And he said the reason he made the book was to show,

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this is what, '57.

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He said to show how quickly you can go up,

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and how quickly you can go down.

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And compared to now 60 years later,

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you can go through the five stages of grief in one day.

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You can wake up and think you have a notion at 10 A.M.

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Put it up on the internet,

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find out you've misstepped and gacked it.

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Find out you're over at one o' clock,

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experience some phoenix from the ashes saying

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by three in the afternoon,

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be back on the Internet at early morning

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being overly strident again about something.

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It's a pretty quick cycle of life now isn't it?

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<v ->It is, and it's so quick that it's becoming meaningless.</v>

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It's like oh, well yep there's another celebrity

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that just stepped in it.

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He'll be back in a couple days.

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<v ->Where do you see it leading?</v>

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People think, well I think we'll eventually learn

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how to do social media.

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I think it's only gonna get worse.

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I think something like you said though,

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at some point you'll have to say (beeping).

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You know what I mean?

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That will be the lesson that we'll learn

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is we are completely exposed to our fellow humans now.

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And the immediacies of like that.

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And at the end of the day you just gotta keep going on,

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what does it matter?

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The approbation of the crowd.

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<v ->I think one thing that gives me a little bit of hope,</v>

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I think more and more people in our society,

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and this is both on the right and on the left

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are starting to realize that we need

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to be having a deeper conversation about our values.

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What we're exposing ourself to,

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and that maybe it's incumbent on us

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to start limiting our own exposure to social media

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and a lot of the stuff that gets posted online.

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People are willingly removing apps from their phone.

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They're unfriending and unfollowing 80%

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of the people that they follow.

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And they're finding benefits in it.

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It's about quality of information,

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rather than quantity.

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Because the quantity just messes us up.

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<v ->I'm wondering if this hands across the water</v>

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serves us all.

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<v ->You might be right.</v>

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There's a thing I think

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in sociology called the Dunbar number.

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And essentially what they found is that humans aren't,

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none of us are able to process more

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than about 150 relationships.

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(laughs)

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So in terms of like actually seeing somebody as a human,

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not just an objectified other.

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<v ->Well that's interesting.</v>

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<v ->We max out around 150.</v>

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Everything past that we just lump

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into these stereotypical groups.

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So it's like the old Stalin quote,

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the death of one person's a tragedy,

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the death of a million is a statistic.

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Like our minds literally can't wrap around

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that many human beings.

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<v ->Now as you were going to write this book,</v>

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I'm wondering as you

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throw an interesting Stalin quote at me.

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I find great knowledge in some of these old quotes.

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And I go back and research them.

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You hear of aphorisms once and a while.

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You know, you're only as happy as you're unhappiest child.

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I always think who wrote that?

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Who's that wise that they could write that?

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<v ->And how many children did they have?</v>

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<v ->And I'm wondering as you go back,</v>

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who's resonated with you?

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Where do you find some of your answers?

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<v ->Yeah, a lot of my inspiration for this book,</v>

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I went back to some of the classic western philosophers.

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So Immanuel Kant, Friedrich Nietzsche, Freud,

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even some Plato.

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I think it's,

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a few years ago after the 2016 election

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where everything hit the fan

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and everybody started kind of going crazy at each other.

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I decided that anything too contemporary

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was probably gonna miss the mark.

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That we need to get back to first principles.

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And so I just started digging into philosophy,

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and it really kept me sane in a lot of ways.

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<v ->Interesting, I agree with you.</v>

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It seems to be there's a few great thoughts in the world.

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I don't know who's gonna hatch the next one,

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but I almost feel like it's been hatched already.

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(laughing)

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These guys had an empty playing field back then.

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<v ->Yeah, right.</v>

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<v ->Like old Nietzsche they were able</v>

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to come in and be uber avuncular.

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I'm not sure that's coming down the road

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as I read some of these Tweets.

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I don't know that we haven't gone past that time.

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We're talking to Mark Manson.

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I wanna talk to Mark about politics

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which he just mentioned after the break.

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Mark Manson on why he thinks the current state

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of our economy, political situation,

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and the rest of the world probably gets

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into our ability to jangle on down the road

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in a more easy manner.

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(elated music)

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His book is "Everything is (beeping), A Book about Hope".

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And he is the author, and I'm sure you're one

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of the eight million out there watching this,

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"The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck".

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We'll be right back with Mark Manson

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after this on Larry King Now.

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(elated music)

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Welcome back to Larry King Now,

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I'm Dennis Miller filling in for Larry.

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Today my guest is "Everything is (beeping)" author,

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Mark Maren, Mark Maren?

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(laughing)

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That will show you the Internet's a fact.

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(laughing)

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Mark Manson, we should leave that in,

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that will show you how this is,

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we're Pavlov's dogs.

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Sorry Manson.

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I'm trying to think, when you said politics 2016,

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I didn't know what, the A, D, B, C moment

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that was 2016 as far as the national sanity goes amazes me.

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Honest to god I've made my living as an adult,

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ever since I was lucky enough to get the weekend update

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where you do topical jokes to talk about topics.

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I'm not drawn to politics by and large.

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People kind of know me as a topical comedian.

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I'm amazed that people have

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lost there (beeping) over politics like that.

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<v ->Really?</v>

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I feel like it's everything's become so amplified

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that it's like any little thing that's going wrong,

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it becomes a catastrophe.

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It becomes something gate.

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<v ->Drama queens, it's like the blanche duboisation</v>

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of the culture.

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<v ->And it's one thing that I was very intentional</v>

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with writing this book was when I was promoting Subtle Art,

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I traveled around the world promoting it.

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And so I would go Australia,

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I'd go to the U.K.

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I'd go to India, Brazil.

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And what I noticed is that everything

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that was happening here was happening

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to a certain degree in these other places as well.

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And so I felt very strongly that I wanted

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to write a book that discussed our political discourse

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without taking a side.

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Because one of things that I'm very happy about too

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is that people on both the right and the left were fans

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of the last book.

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And I think that's extremely rare today.

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<v ->It's a sweet spot.</v>

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<v ->It is.</v>

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<v ->That's a tough sweet spot to hit nowadays.</v>

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<v ->And it's hard to stay there.</v>

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<v ->It's Hatfield's and McCoys both sharing something</v>

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at the picnic quite frankly.

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But when you get to a place like India you say for instance.

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Let's say sub-Saharan Africa.

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Places where there's real pain.

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I'm always amazed that,

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I think part of our ability to be emotional hemophiliacs

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in this country is how in many ways,

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we don't have problems like they do.

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->We've got time for these boot-deep problems</v>

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in an odd way.

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<v ->There's something interesting that I talk about</v>

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in the first chapter which is that,

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interestingly the richer and safer a country becomes,

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the more people struggle with these questions

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of meaning and hope.

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So things like depression, anxiety, suicides,

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drug overdoses, there are all far more common

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in richer and safer societies.

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They're even, they've even run studies,

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they found that the richest and safest neighborhoods

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and cities have the highest rates of suicide

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and depression and drug overdoses.

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<v ->Isn't that amazing?</v>

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You should put a map together for your third book of that.

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->You know and show the places</v>

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where you think you'd be in clover,

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you're screwed up because you almost have the time

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and the luxury of imagining problems.

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<v ->But it's fascinating because if you think about it,</v>

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if you are somebody on the Savannah and sub-Saharan Africa,

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like it's not a complicated question

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to know what to live for.

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<v ->Yes.</v>

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<v ->You gotta eat.</v>

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There's no time to think about anything else.

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<v ->That's today's plan.</v>

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<v ->And it's when your sitting</v>

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in a cushy air-conditioned condo

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ordering food off your phone

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and flipping between 18 different Hulu shows or whatever,

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it's actually a very complicated question

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of what to live for or what to hope for.

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<v ->Our final moments with Mark Manson.</v>

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We'll take some questions from you social media,

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and Mark will answer them.

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Don't go away, that's right after this.

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(elated music)

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Symbolically I'm telling you this is a well balanced book

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by leaving here to stand on its own.

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Welcome back to Larry King Now,

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I'm Dennis Miller, I'm filling in for Larry.

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Today my guest is "Everything is (beeping)" author,

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Mark Manson.

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And quite an interesting young man.

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I think of him as young, but then again I'm old.

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We have some social media questions for Mark.

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Lavesh Bhola, are you willing to create a list

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of speakers in programs such

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as popular motivational speakers about whom we should

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or should not give a (beeping).

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For example, an A to Z consumers guide

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to help self-help gurus updated annually.

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<v ->Yeah, no I'm not willing.</v>

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A, because who the hell am I to say?

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But also B, different people respond to different things.

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Everybody kind of has their own path.

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So what might not work for me,

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or be a bad influence for me might

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be great for somebody else.

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<v ->Sure, I'm interested,</v>

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you were talking about some of the classics

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and I think those are touch stones for everybody,

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but is there anybody new who sort of floats your boat

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as far as some sort of unique perspective?

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Periodically I'll read something,

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I'll go that's an interesting.

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<v ->I think there's some great authors right now</v>

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that are talking about a lot of these same issues.

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I'm a big fan of Yuval Noah Harari,

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he wrote Sapians and Homo Deus.

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Sam Harris who even though I disagree with him

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on a lot of stuff, he has great discussions,

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and raises a lot of interesting points

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around a lot of these issues.

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Jonathon Haidt, psychologist at NYU.

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<v ->Do you read Steven Pinker at all?</v>

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<v ->I love Pinker, love Pinker.</v>

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<v ->Interesting man.</v>

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I'm interested in your every man quality.

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Are you ill at ease when people would apply more

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to you than author I enjoyed who had some clever insights.

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If they go anywhere near guru,

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I assume you find that radioactive to some degree?

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<v ->Yes, absolutely.</v>

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<v ->Yeah who needs that?</v>

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<v ->Yeah.</v>

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<v ->Wutsupnews, @wutsupnews on Twitter.</v>

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In one sentence, what is the biggest takeaway

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from your new book?

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The book again is "Everything is (beeping),

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A Book About Hope.

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Biggest takeaway?

515
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<v ->Be careful what you hope for.</v>

516
00:20:08.560 --> 00:20:10.930
Because as you said, you just might get it.

517
00:20:10.930 --> 00:20:12.599
<v ->Yeah there's a great Capote short story</v>

518
00:20:12.599 --> 00:20:15.610
called Answer Prayers which is just a twist on that,

519
00:20:15.610 --> 00:20:18.470
or you really have to think.

520
00:20:18.470 --> 00:20:20.335
Sometimes the best move is no move.

521
00:20:20.335 --> 00:20:21.168
<v ->Yeah exactly.</v>

522
00:20:21.168 --> 00:20:22.126
(laughing)

523
00:20:22.126 --> 00:20:23.877
<v ->Just sit in it, learn how to dig it back.</v>

524
00:20:23.877 --> 00:20:27.080
Everybody doesn't have to get the Australian crawl,

525
00:20:27.080 --> 00:20:29.259
figure out a nice whatever the hell this is.

526
00:20:29.259 --> 00:20:30.092
(laughs)

527
00:20:30.092 --> 00:20:31.700
And once a while in your life take it to,

528
00:20:31.700 --> 00:20:33.673
okay what do I swim for next?

529
00:20:35.351 --> 00:20:39.280 line:15% 
@Laurenmeah, sorry Ms. Meah if I'm saying that wrong,

530
00:20:39.280 --> 00:20:41.390 line:15% 
M-E-A-H on Twitter.

531
00:20:41.390 --> 00:20:44.210 line:15% 
Does writing energize or exhaust you?

532
00:20:44.210 --> 00:20:45.043 line:15% 
<v ->Exhaust.</v>

533
00:20:45.043 --> 00:20:46.040 line:15% 
<v ->Yeah, even this one?</v>

534
00:20:46.040 --> 00:20:47.627
Get any better to it was the same thing?

535
00:20:47.627 --> 00:20:48.640
<v ->No, it exhausts.</v>

536
00:20:48.640 --> 00:20:51.300
I mean, don't get me wrong, I love it.

537
00:20:51.300 --> 00:20:55.044
But three to four hours, I am brain dead.

538
00:20:55.044 --> 00:20:55.910
<v ->Yeah you're out.</v>

539
00:20:55.910 --> 00:20:56.743
<v ->Brain dead, yeah.</v>

540
00:20:56.743 --> 00:20:58.510
<v ->Yeah I read, there's a great book</v>

541
00:20:58.510 --> 00:21:00.280
about how writers approach their writing.

542
00:21:00.280 --> 00:21:01.960
I forget the name of it, sorry I did that,

543
00:21:01.960 --> 00:21:03.230
but I love Jonathon Franzen

544
00:21:03.230 --> 00:21:05.610
and said he took the oldest keyboard he could,

545
00:21:05.610 --> 00:21:08.600
and he gaffer taped up every extraneous hole on it.

546
00:21:08.600 --> 00:21:10.590
Every sort of informational orifice

547
00:21:10.590 --> 00:21:12.280
and turned it just into the keyboard.

548
00:21:12.280 --> 00:21:14.010
And he said I would face a wall.

549
00:21:14.010 --> 00:21:14.843
I didn't want any window

550
00:21:14.843 --> 00:21:16.370
where I go oh, life's beautiful.

551
00:21:16.370 --> 00:21:17.203
<v ->Yeah.</v>

552
00:21:17.203 --> 00:21:19.385
<v ->And I thought, man at some point it is strapping yourself</v>

553
00:21:19.385 --> 00:21:21.350
on the ore and beating that drum?

554
00:21:21.350 --> 00:21:22.850
<v ->It really is, it's like being</v>

555
00:21:22.850 --> 00:21:24.831
on a treadmill for three hours.

556
00:21:24.831 --> 00:21:26.730
By the end of it you can't wait

557
00:21:26.730 --> 00:21:28.615
to just go lay face down in a couch somewhere.

558
00:21:28.615 --> 00:21:29.448
(laughs)

559
00:21:29.448 --> 00:21:30.960
<v ->It's something I always fantasized about</v>

560
00:21:30.960 --> 00:21:32.770
is writing a really long book.

561
00:21:32.770 --> 00:21:35.780
And I'm saying, I did little pamphlet books kind of

562
00:21:35.780 --> 00:21:37.500
about the rants years ago.

563
00:21:37.500 --> 00:21:38.790
They were comic books.

564
00:21:38.790 --> 00:21:41.280
When you're finished, is it like misery?

565
00:21:41.280 --> 00:21:42.810
Is it like Jimmy Caan or?

566
00:21:42.810 --> 00:21:44.400
What do you feel that first night?

567
00:21:44.400 --> 00:21:47.860
You just must feel, or you just go to bed.

568
00:21:47.860 --> 00:21:49.560
<v ->There's a little bit of elation.</v>

569
00:21:49.560 --> 00:21:51.805
The problem is is that when you're writing a book,

570
00:21:51.805 --> 00:21:54.530
you go through so many revisions.

571
00:21:54.530 --> 00:21:56.440
So you go through six, eight revisions.

572
00:21:56.440 --> 00:21:58.500
So by the time you finish that last revision,

573
00:21:58.500 --> 00:22:00.820
you're actually, you're just so sick of it,

574
00:22:00.820 --> 00:22:01.653
that you can't wait.

575
00:22:01.653 --> 00:22:02.486
<v ->Time to hand it off, right.</v>

576
00:22:02.486 --> 00:22:03.880
<v ->Yeah, (laughs) you're like,</v>

577
00:22:03.880 --> 00:22:05.360
you feel nauseous looking at it.

578
00:22:05.360 --> 00:22:07.583
<v ->You got a good editor, you dovetail with somebody smart?</v>

579
00:22:07.583 --> 00:22:10.360
<v ->Yeah, love my editor, great guy.</v>

580
00:22:10.360 --> 00:22:12.800
<v ->It's too weird a world.</v>

581
00:22:12.800 --> 00:22:14.250
You gotta have somebody right off your wing,

582
00:22:14.250 --> 00:22:17.468
you know when you turn, they turn, or vice versa.

583
00:22:17.468 --> 00:22:20.909 line:15% 
Rosssaw, what was your initial reaction

584
00:22:20.909 --> 00:22:23.353 line:15% 
when you were contacted by Will Smith

585
00:22:23.353 --> 00:22:28.353 line:15% 
and asked to collaborate with him for his upcoming book?

586
00:22:29.680 --> 00:22:32.603 line:15% 
<v ->W-T-F, I was like really?</v>

587
00:22:33.855 --> 00:22:37.130 line:15% 
And I mean that in a self-deprecating way.

588
00:22:37.130 --> 00:22:39.410
I was hugely flattered and honored

589
00:22:39.410 --> 00:22:41.170
and I have started working with him.

590
00:22:41.170 --> 00:22:44.281
And it's just, the guy's had an incredible life

591
00:22:44.281 --> 00:22:46.839
and incredible career so it's an honor

592
00:22:46.839 --> 00:22:51.839
for me to help get that, mold it, and channel it

593
00:22:52.000 --> 00:22:54.570
to help him share it with the world.

594
00:22:54.570 --> 00:22:56.090
<v ->There's the next book baby.</v>

595
00:22:56.090 --> 00:22:56.923
<v ->Yep.</v>

596
00:22:56.923 --> 00:22:59.037
<v ->The fresh (beeping) prince of Bel-air.</v>

597
00:22:59.037 --> 00:23:01.070
(laughs)

598
00:23:01.070 --> 00:23:02.777
Mark Manson.
<v ->Thank you so much.</v>

599
00:23:02.777 --> 00:23:03.610
<v ->Appreciate your time.</v>

600
00:23:03.610 --> 00:23:04.653
Big thanks to my guest Mark Manson.

601
00:23:04.653 --> 00:23:05.486
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602
00:23:05.486 --> 00:23:07.957
Check out his new book, "Everything is (beeping),

603
00:23:10.277 --> 00:23:11.680
A Book About Hope.

604
00:23:11.680 --> 00:23:13.091
I think the sly sense of humor's conveyed

605
00:23:13.091 --> 00:23:15.330
by the subtitler.

606
00:23:15.330 --> 00:23:18.250
And currently in book stores and online.

607
00:23:18.250 --> 00:23:20.756
Check out my podcast, the Dennis Miller Option

608
00:23:20.756 --> 00:23:23.400
on Westwood One, iTunes.

609
00:23:23.400 --> 00:23:25.138
Thank you Larry, I'll see you next time.

610
00:23:25.138 --> 00:23:27.721
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